Friday, November 4, 2011

My Holiday Control Journal

 A person might wonder just how much control I really have when I post a blog complete with nine pictures about a book to organize my holidays.  But, this project was fun and mostly easy and makes me feel good so just deal with it!
As all my readers know, I am  a little obsessed with the flylady.com right now.  I downloaded the holiday journal here (there are actually a bunch of control journals but for this project click on the HCJ) and printed it out.  I sat and wondered how to best put my HCJ together as it has to last two months.  So I decided to use clear contact paper to cover the front and back pages.  Easy peasy. 

 I just laid the contact paper out on my desk.

 Put the back page underneath the already pulled back contact paper.  I laid my paper on top of the backing paper for the contact paper.  


 The back page of the journal is blank for you to put an envelope for receipts or other important things like warranties, rebates, etc.  I decided to attach two smaller envelopes so that I could have two categories if I need it. I put contact paper over the envelopes as well so they would stay durable throughout the season.

 To not have excess bunched up contact paper I cut the corners out like this so that all of it would fit better.  



This is where things got hairy.  I tried to staple my book together and it just barely wouldn't fit.  So I thought I would use the staple gun that my mom left at my house.  That doesn't work either.  So today I am pondering how to best put the book together still.  I think I will take a few of the less necessary pages out and staple them together, then put them in a pocket I will create with more paper and contact paper on the back of the front page.  I will let you all know.  I know you are on pins and needles.  But, the moral of the story is....my holidays are going to be stress and chaos FREE! woot for that!

Thursday, November 3, 2011

Halloween 2011


This year we had Eden dress up as the cute pirate, Asher was a dinosaur, Cedric was a zombie, Liam was wolverine at school then optimus prime on trick or treat, and Tristan was an Indian.  Cullen would not dress up.  Jeremy was V for Vendetta.  I had a witch hat.  That was really cool by the way and I would like to wear it everyday.  Also in this picture we had Cedric's friend, CJ, who was a Blueboy!






 I bought her the cutest little pink and white striped leg warmers to go with her pirate outfit.  It looked way cuter in person than in the pics......The tutu had little skulls and crossbones on it.










Best Friends






Cullen and Eden are pretty good friends.  They like to hold hands and make each other laugh as we drive down the road.  Cullen has started giving his pacifiers to Eden because he knows that he is a big boy now.  It's really sweet.  He gives it to her all the time and then gives her a hug and kiss.  They will sit on the couch together and her will put his arm around her and kiss her on the cheek!  They are dripping with cuteness!

Bed Monster


We had forbidden any of the kids to start out sleeping in our room one night.  Someone or a few always end up in there anyway but, we wanted them to at least try to start in their own bed.  Well, when I went up to bed a couple of hours later, here was Asher in my bed with a little cave of pillows around him.  He also had the air conditioning cranked so it was freezing!  And he was in the cave in just his underware!  We find this kid sleeping in the weirdest spots and strangest positions.....

What? I Found Some More Pics




 Okay, so I know I already blogged about Eden's birthday but, Jeremy just downloaded some pics from his phone and I couldn't NOT put them on the blog.  It's for posterity!  So, here is our Eden McFroo....really these are random weird shots because my Jeremy was behind the camera/phone! haha!  He hates it when I make him take pictures! 



 We got her a little people dollhouse thing and some clothes and slippers.  She got lots of other cools stuff from other important people in her life too.








24 Days of Thanksgiving-#2

Today I am thankful for my king sized bed.  Without which I would be a crowded, aching, lady with no room to sleep.  I am also thankful for a super duper husband who lets me hog the majority of the bed!

Say What?!!?

It just dawned on me that the fly lady might be a pervert!  Exercise is called.... loving movements!  EEWWWWWWW!  Why didn't I see that one before!  We will have to change that one.  LOL!

Wednesday, November 2, 2011

I'm Smitten!

Okay FLY Lady, so you've clued me in to how to make everything better and easier to do....JUST CALL IT SOMETHING ELSE!! LOL!  I love, love, love this line of thinking! 
Cleaning House= Blessing you home
Excercise or Working Out= Loving Movements

I'm gonna start making up new terms for just about everything I do...so stay tuned! 

The Best

Blizzard + Bed = Babies

PEORIA, Ill. (AP) -- Some hospitals in the Peoria area are reporting a baby boom nine months after a record blizzard hit Illinois.
The Journal Star reports Wednesday ( http://bit.ly/sRy3jk ) that there were 60 births in at OSF Saint Francis Medical Center last week, compared with an average of 25. That's a 140 percent increase. Pekin Hospital also saw three times the usual number of newborns during on Oct. 21. The hospital had a 37 percent increase in babies born in October.
A blizzard blanketed central Illinois
with 15 inches of snow on Feb. 1.

Tea For Two

This is the tea set I want to get for Eden.  Isn't is just perfect?!!?  Why yes it is!  An old friend of mine showcased it on her blog and told all the wonderful things about it and I was hooked.  You can read her blog here. She explained everything so well and all the pros and cons.  She has an awesome blog! I can't wait to have tea and cookies with my Eden Rose!

A Mormon's Respectful Response To Being Called A "Cult" or "Not Christian"

Dear Pastor Jeffress (of First Baptist Dallas),

I’m just one of the millions of people who saw and heard on TV news shows your statements that “Mormonism is a cult” and “not a part of orthodox Christianity”.  As a faithful lifelong member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints I felt a strong reaction to those statements, as you might imagine.  My remarks here are only my personal thoughts, but I assure you they are heartfelt.

My reaction was twofold.   First, I saw your remarks as an unfortunate “below-the-belt” swipe at Mitt Romney in the hopes of advancing your own favorite political candidate.   While you certainly have the right to do that, I think many Americans join me in feeling that such a move was beneath a prominent religious leader such as yourself.

Second, as a devoted believer and follower of Jesus Christ I was saddened that you felt the need to speak out against my faith and beliefs.  I’m sure there are those who think it was done with malice, but I’ll try to do the Christ-like thing and give you the benefit of the doubt.  Perhaps you’ve just been misinformed about “Mormonism” as many others have been.

But it might surprise you to learn that I actually agree with part of what you said, although perhaps for different reasons than you might imagine.

You said that Mitt Romney is “not a Christian” (and by association myself and the other six million-plus Americans who are Latter-day Saints).  But I believe you need to be more specific.  There are many different kinds or “flavors” of Christians.  I agree that the LDS people are not Baptist Christians or Evangelical Christians or Catholic Christians, etc.   I will even agree that we’re not part of  “orthodox” or “traditional” flavor of Christianity, if by that you mean the post-Nicene church that became the “universal” or “catholic” version of Christendom.

I believe my faith to be the original church of the Corinthians, the Ephesians, and yes, those who were first called Christians in Antioch,  - that same church now restored in these latter days.  So I call myself a “latter-day Christian", with theological roots that precede the “historical” or “orthodox” version that was the product of the various councils and creeds.  That “orthodoxy” eventually became so corrupt and so apostate that the Reformers broke away from it in protest of its having “fallen away” from Biblical truths (2 Thess. 2) and “changed the ordinances” (Isa. 24:5) so that the “faith once delivered to the saints” (Jude 1:3) was no longer recognizable as the church that Jesus organized.

There were many enlightened Christian thinkers and theologians in history who, like Joseph Smith, believed that Christianity had become apostate and that a restoration of the New Testament church of Christ was necessary.  John Wesley the founder of Methodism wrote:
   It does not appear that these extraordinary gifts of the Holy Ghost were common in the Church for more than two or three centuries. We seldom hear of them after that fatal period when the Emperor Constantine called himself a Christian; . . . From this time they almost totally ceased; . . . The Christians had no more of the Spirit of Christ than the other Heathens . . . . This was the real cause why the extraordinary gifts of the Holy Ghost were no longer to be found in the Christian Church; because the Christians were turned Heathens again, and had only a dead form left.
The Works of John Wesley, vol. 7, pp.26-27

As I’m sure you well know, John Smythe the founder of the Baptists first left his position as a Church of England minister and joined the Separatists, but then dissolved his congregation to re-form it as the first General Baptist church among English expatriates in Amsterdam in 1609.  He felt that the “historic” or “orthodox” Christianity of his time had wandered astray, especially with regard to the apostate doctrine of infant baptism.  Those first Baptists were considered a “cult” by many Protestants in the “traditional” Christian denominations that persecuted them unmercifully.

Around 1640, Roger Williams of Providence, Rhode Island, founder of the first Baptist church in America refused to continue as pastor on the grounds that there was:

… no regularly‑constituted church on earth, nor any person authorized to administer any Church ordinance: nor could there be until new apostles are sent by the great Head of the Church, for whose coming, I am seeking.
 (Picturesque America, or the Land We Live In, ed. William Cullen Bryant, New York: D. Appleton and Co., 1872, vol. 1, p. 502.)

If I understand your words correctly your definition of a Christian (and that of most Evangelicals) is a pretty narrow one, far different from the standard meaning found in most dictionaries.  Personally I think anyone who accepts Jesus Christ as the Only Begotten Son of God and as his/her personal Savior who died for our sins and was bodily resurrected on the third day is a Christian.  C.S. Lewis described such people as “mere” Christians.

But your narrow definition would exclude anyone who:
1. Does not believe in a closed canon of the 66 books of the Protestant Bible.
2. Does not accept the Nicene Creed as an accurate description of the nature of God the Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost.
3. Believes in living prophets and apostles as the “foundation” of Christ’s earthly church.
4. Believes in continuing revelation from God to man.

     I could go on.  I’m very familiar with the standard arguments against “Mormonism”.

But the Bible says that believers in Christ were first called Christians at Antioch (Acts 11:26).  I would respectfully submit that those Christians:
1. Did not believe in a closed canon of scripture.  (some of the New Testament had not yet been written.)
2. Did not accept the Nicene Creed as an accurate description of the nature of God the Father, His Son Jesus Christ, and the Holy Ghost.  (it would not be written for 300 years)
3. Believed in living apostles and prophets as the “foundation” of Christ’s earthly church.
4. Believed in continuing revelation from God to man.

So if you’re going to say that Mitt and I are not Christians based on those reasons, you’ll have to say that the believers in Antioch were not Christians either according to your definition.

You said in your Hardball interview that “Mormonism” is a “cult” because:
1. “Mormonism came 1800 years after Jesus Christ”
2. “Mormonism has its own human leader, Joseph Smith”
3. “it has its own set of doctrines”
4. “it has its own religious book, The Book of Mormon, in addition to the Bible”

Your exact following words were:  “and so by that definition it is a theological cult”.  You made a weak distinction between a theological cult and a sociological one, but most people will not even notice that fine differentiation.  It was obvious to any sophisticated viewer that your main goal was to keep repeating the word “cult”.   It’s such an inflammatory buzz word that I’m sure your goal is to use it as often as you can to scare people away from “Mormonism” without seriously considering our theology and our beliefs.  It’s a word used to end or avoid discussion, not to foster it.  As a Latter-day Saint I welcome the opportunity to “stand ready to give a reason for the faith that is in me”, but those who sling around the word “cult” with respect to The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints seek to cut off debate rather than to encourage dialog.  It’s as though they are afraid of an open and honest discussion.

But following your own definition of “cult” for a moment, I’d like to respectfully submit that:
1. Roman Catholicism came 300 years after Jesus Christ.
2. Roman Catholicism has its own human leader, the Pope (or Peter if you accept the Catholic claims that he was the first Pope)
3. Roman Catholicism has its own set of doctrines (Mariology, transubstantiation, priestly celibacy, veneration of  “saints”, indulgences, etc.)
4. Roman Catholicism has its own religious books (9 deuterocanonical more than those found in the Protestant Bible – also used in Eastern Orthodox churches)

And even your own Baptist flavor of Christianity in some ways fits your definition of what makes a cult;
1. “Baptistism” came 1609 years after Jesus Christ
2. “Baptistism” had its own human leader John Smythe – a Church of England minister (see footnote below from the website of  the Baptist History and Heritage Society)
3. “Baptistism” had its own unique doctrines, including the “believer’s baptism” of adults.
4. “Baptistism” was considered a cult by the “orthodox” or “traditional” or “historic” Christian denominations of the time.  In fact Baptists suffered severe persecution from other Christians who believed in the “mainline” doctrine of infant baptism prevalent in that era.  Thousands of Baptists were martyred for baptizing adults.

One of the dictionary definitions of a cult is that is a small isolated group that is out of the mainstream.  That certainly does not apply to my church.  The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints is the fourth largest religion in America, and the second largest Christian church in Washington, Oregon, and California (after Catholicism).  You mentioned that there are 15 million Southern Baptists.  By 2012 at the present rate of growth there will be more Latter-day Saints than that.

Pastor Jeffress, in order to be consistent and truthful you would have to admit that the same definition you’ve used to brand “Mormonism” a cult applies at least in part to  Roman Catholicism and “Baptistism” as well.  Are you willing to say that on national television?  I would hope so.  I would hope that you’d want to be totally consistent and truthful.

Thank you for your time.  I’m attaching a summary I wrote of what I believe happened to “the faith once delivered to the saints”.  There was a great apostacy that fundamentally changed the New Testament church of Jesus Christ into something so different that those Christians at Antioch or Peter or Paul would not have recognized it in the Dark Ages that came upon the earth.   (Amos 8:12)  That apostacy required the “restitution of all things” prophesied in Acts 3:21 to occur before Christ’s return.   That restitution or restoration of original Biblical Christianity was what was looked forward to by Roger Williams.

I testify to you that that restoration has come, and the original Christianity is back on the earth in its fullness as The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.  If you would like to investigate these claims I’ll be happy to “bring forth my strong reasons” for “the faith that is in me.”  I would welcome a thoughtful dialog.

Cordially yours,

Robert Starling
A Latter-day Christian

(footnote to above reference to John Smyth)
BHHS -- Baptist Beginnings http://www.baptisthistory.org/baptistbeginnings.htm

The first General Baptist church, led by John Smyth, was founded in Amsterdam, Holland, in 1608/09. Its members were English refugees who had fled England to escape religious persecution. John Smyth was a minister in the Church of England. As a student and later as a pastor and teacher. …   By 1608/09, Smyth was convinced his Separatist church was not valid. Most of the members had only infant baptism, and the church was formed on the basis of a "covenant," rather than a confession of faith in Christ. Smyth therefore led the church to disband in 1608/09 and re-form on a new basis–a personal confession of faith in Christ, followed by believer’s baptism. Since none of the members had been baptized as believers, Smyth had to make a new beginning. He baptized himself and then baptized the others. His baptism was by sprinkling or pouring, but it was for believers only.

This Made Me Laugh Out Loud

So this was one of my friend's status today on facebook and I loved it and stole it!  Too funny!


"I'm looking desperately for my happy pants this morning.  I might beat up whoever took them."

Ah, it's the little things that make me smile!

24 Days of Thanksgiving

I'm going to be thankful for something each and every day up to Thanksgiving. 
I will do two today since I missed yesterday.
  
1. I am thankful for my husband.  He is my best friend and my guiding light.  He accepts me as I am.  Without him, I wouldn't have so many other blessings.

2.  I am thankful for my big perfect yard.  I just love it!  I love that we have a little stream running right through the property. And it has so much more potential.  It's might be the only good thing about this house so we try to focus on that, lol!  (side note:has anyone seen Everything Must Go with Will Ferrall?  Because we thought about living in our yard, jokingly of course, but apparently that is illegal????  On your own property?)  

More About Fly Lady

Okay, so this site might be like my new bible! lol! (For those of you concerned...no it's not my new bible, sheesh!)  I've been doing the thirty days of baby steps.  It's awesome!  And yes, Timpani, you are right.  I like how she says you are blessing your home rather than cleaning/working in your home!  Makes the job easier to do I think!
31 Beginner Baby Steps

Tuesday, November 1, 2011

Check This Out

I just finished my fly lady morning routine am taking my 15 minute break.  Look at this awesome Holiday Control Journal form the fly lady.

K, so go http://www.flylady.net/pages/HolidayCruising1.asp  and click on the holiday control journal link to download.  What a great way to organize the holidays!

Cute, Crazy Cullen

Now that Halloween is out of the way I started this morning with a nice Christmas show!  HA!  Cullen LOVES The Grinch!  That kid is just too cute.....when he's not screaming "I don't want it!"  That is his new thing.  All day he has these periodic screaming fits of the "I don't want its".  I know it's just those threes making his little brain all crazy inside but good grief!  Enough with the screaming! lol!  Today he is fascinated with Santa Claus!  Which is great because he wanted nothing at all to do with Halloween.  He didn't even get a costume on once.  And when people showed up at the door to trick-or-treat, he would scream (take a wild guess) "I don't want it!" at them through the door! LMAO!!

Fly Lady

This site is awesome!  The FLY (Finally Love Yourself) Lady has the answer to all kinds of things!  Hhow to not be overwhelmed and get through the day! lol!
http://www.flylady.net/
There is a wealth of information.  Don't get overwhelmed....go to the getting started section! In fact I will post the getting started section here:


How to join our cyber Family

Are you wondering what to expect when you join the FlyLady email group?

The email group is the backbone of the FlyLady system. These emails are where you learn to FLY (Finally Love Yourself). We send out an average of 10 emails per day. We have cut back on the amount of emails that are sent out throughout the day but they can still be overwhelming to a new member. Please don't get overwhelmed by them! Each and every email is an important piece of FLYing. Here is a break down of exactly what to expect to see in your inbox every day and why it is important to read:

FlyLady's Essays - These essays are to help motivate you and help change your attitude towards your family and home. These come straight from FlyLady and are spoken from the heart. You don't want to miss these special essays.

Kelly's Missions - Each day, Kelly sends out her daily mission to help you declutter/clean in our zone for the week. These are detailed missions that tell you exactly what to go and do. They take just a few minutes to do but really make a difference in your home.

Testimonials - Testimonials are sent in from our wonderful Flybabies all around the world. They are meant to encourage and inspire you in your FLYing journey. They are always positive and uplifting stories of triumph and success sent in by Flybabies just like you.

Riley Challenges - These special missions are sent out for the children in our homes. They are small challenges that the little ones can do all on their own. They are such a great tool in helping our children learn to FLY with us.

Remember that these emails are to help you learn to FLY. They are not meant to overwhelm you and make you feel like you are behind. You don't have to read each and every email either! Feel free to use the delete button for any emails that you aren't ready for yet. You will be ready for them all soon and they will still be there ready and waiting for you. And most importantly remember, "You are not behind! I don't want you to try to catch up; I just want you to jump in where we are. O.K.?"
To join FlyLady's group and receive her emails, go to this website and click on join this group.
https://www.bigtent.com/groups/flylady
To join our FlyLady community on Facebook, go to the following link and register.
http://www.facebook.com/TheFlyLady

Bye, Buddy.

Jeremy's parent's had a dog that they got on Trisha's 8th birthday.  His name was buddy and he was a good little dog.  He was old and couldn't see or hear very well.  He disappeared one night and was found the next day hit by a car.  He was injured so badly that they had to put him to sleep.  Poor buddy.  We will miss him.

Wanna Buy A House....It's A Real Winner

Jeremy has been working diligently for three days now to fix our antique boiler furnace.  Just another lovely thing we find out about this P.O.S. house.  Add it to the list with everything else. Apparently you're doing great if your boiler makes it twenty years and ours has been in that basement for at least 31.  Super.  We can't get it to work yet.
  It is supposed to get down to 34 tonight so hopefully our little space heaters keep up because poor Eden is already sick.  I'm freezing in the office right now but there is no space heater in here....much to my dismay.
This house is the BIGGEST mistake we have made in our married lives.  No one can ever convince either one of us (and not to brag but we're freaking smart people with high I.Q.'s) that it is cheaper to own a home than rent one.  Do the math people.  The only way it may be even remotely worth your money is if you live in the house for your whole life.  Even if you live in the house your entire life, you still end up paying at least double what you bought it for.  Not to mention taxes and upkeep.  Or you can buy a house, fix it up really cheap like, and sell it to some chumps like us...that'll make ya some money. 
Oh wait, but, we're building equity, right??  What is the equity for except to get another house that you can dump EVEN MORE MONEY INTO!?!?!?  ARE YOU FREAKING KIDDING ME?!?!
I think really it's a status symbol.  And not one that I want.....because I think it is the status of idiocy, really.  We have spent more money owning a home than we ever did renting.  Next year we are getting rid of this money pit.  I am counting the days and on the day it sells, I'm throwing a huge party!!!  I cannot wait to return to my renter status.  
Never owning a home again unless I've got the money to pay for it in cash.